F.R.I.E.N.D.S

I am a crazy fan of the TV show friends. I must have watched all the seasons at least twice. So involved was I that I started imagining people around me to be as simple and trustworthy as the characters in it. Obviously I had to learn the truth the hard way.
I learned that there are 3 types of people in this world.
One---FRIEND
Two---ENEMY
Three and the most dangerous---BACKSTABBERS
The people in the first category obviously are the best. They would do anything to be with you. They would never get you wrong. Even if you abuse or fight with them they would let it pass their minds as if it never happened.
What can I say about the people in the second category. Everyone must have at least one person from this category, just to add spice in life. You love competing with such a person. The ecstasy on seeing the defeated face of this person is heavenly. These people motivate you to work harder. You may think me to be crazy saying enemies are good but they actually are. Just imagine how boring life would be without having a person in your life whom you want to kick on the face.
The third and the worst category are backstabbers. These are the most dangerous because they hurt you emotionally. Physical injuries can be healed but emotional and mental injuries are pretty bad. They can simply throw you off your goal in life. Backstabbers are your "acting friends" whom you think are trustworthy but in return are those people who hate you and conspire against you all the time. If you have the gift of recognizing these type of people then you are the safest of all the people.
Unfortunately my encounter with the third kind was pretty often and usually I was blown off my feet. Always wanted to get back on such people. But i was brought up in an environment where people would die for each other. That environment was provided by my school Rashtriya Indian Military College(RIMC) Dehradun.
A school where we were taught the values of life along with some military discipline. I wont go into much details. All I want to say is, the friends that i made during my stay there are those for whom i can do anything and i know even they would do anything for me. Maybe it was the discipline that binds us or the common punishments. But we are one strong group called RIMCOLLIANS.
All I wanted to convey is that when you make friendship with a person, never ever give in more than what you get till the time you are pretty sure that the person is worthy of your friendship. Opening out yourself to people without thinking twice is a bad choice most of the time. So guys hope you get things I wanted to convey. Take care. Bye bye till the next post.